As a mother of a kindergartner approaching the holiday break, I resonate deeply with a viral post on X discussing school spirit weeks. Even with just one child to consider, managing the themed days leading up to the break has proven quite overwhelming.
Holidays
We’ve already navigated through Holiday Hat Day, Ugly Christmas Sweater Day, and Kwanzaa Colors Day, with Hanukkah Colors Day and Cozy Socks and Flannel Day still to come. While the intention to be inclusive of various holidays is appreciated, the sheer volume is becoming a lot to handle.
This sentiment is shared by “Mariah,” a mom with two kids facing nine different dress-up days. She rightly expresses the challenges, not solely due to the inconvenience for busy parents during this time but also because these events inadvertently create financial and emotional burdens. Mariah points out that these dress-up days assume families can readily afford holiday-themed clothing during the most expensive time of the year. Additionally, they may overlook the diversity of celebrations within the school community, unintentionally alienating those who don’t observe Christmas.
Mariah suggests a simpler solution, advocating for a PJ Day on the last day before the break, emphasizing inclusivity and reducing the financial strain on families. She acknowledges the excitement kids feel about dressing up but underscores the importance of recognizing the varying circumstances families face. Mariah also dispels the notion of a one-size-fits-all response, highlighting the impracticality of “just don’t do it” or the assumption that everyone can easily access second-hand items, especially in rural communities.
In conclusion, she urges a more considerate approach to holiday spirit weeks, proposing a more accessible and universally enjoyable PJ day (or week) as a compromise. This not only eases the burden on parents but also fosters a more inclusive and less financially divisive atmosphere during the festive season.